HAPPY 5TH ANNIVERSARY TO KAY@LAILA AND ARDI
pics will come soon.. wait aaa
Friday, April 18, 2008
Wednesday, April 02, 2008
2nd April..
Setiap tahun aku akan letak blog ni. This is to commemorate my father, Hj Abas bin Hj Magu who passed away exactly 3 years ago due to liver cancer. Masih segar lagi kat ingatan ni how he passed away. You may go here.
As you grow older you never realize how much you needed your parents. At least I do. I need my father's advice in almost everything. On my career, my marriage, my kids, buying a house, buying a car. In fact almost everything.
I am proud of my father. He's willing to sacrifice his career for the love of my mother. He was a Religious Officer back in Sarawak. His work required him to move around. That was why my elder brother was born in Simanggang and my sister was born in Limbang. But then my late grandparents were not so happy with his moving around thingy. So they bought a land in Larkin, JB, built a shophouse and asked my parents to take care of it. So that was why I ended up born in Singapore (while waiting for the house to be ready) and my other brothers born in Johor Bahru. He became a shopkeeper (that's what they used to call) for almost 20 years before we rented out the shop. It was a sad moment for us to finally close down the shop. I still remembered I went back from Banting just to observe the handover. We did the inventories together.
But my father was a very determine person. Although he lost his only 'punca rezeki', he tried everything he could to support us. After I left for the States, he went to Kuching leave my mother in JB. At the moment, it seemed that my family was dysfuntional a bit. Ayah in Sarawak, Mak in JB, Abang in KL, Akak in Ireland, I was in the States and EE was in boarding school in JB. Some people even accused him of brought all the money to Sarawak and dumped it to his family. Well, if he did, what's the problem? He had every right to do so. His mum was there and all his siblings.
When I got back to Malaysia, he asked me to get a car. So me and him went to the showrooms, searched high and low for the car. And finally, he told me to get a Proton Wira Sedan 1.5. Then, he decided to open a Nasi Campur stall in our of the restaurants. He definitely loved it. Mak were not even allowed to cut the vegetables. Actually so did I but I always insisted to help him. But it was not long last. For some reason, the owner decided to let the stall which only opened at night to operate in the afternoon as well. Ayah was so frustrated. So he decided to stop the operation although the owner tried to persuade my father not to do so. But too late. (Ini lar dia orang Melayu yang tak boleh tengok orang Melayu senang). Then one of my uncle asked him to join him to open another stall saying that you can sell whatever you want. No need to pay the rental or the utilities bill. Until the bill came out, he asked for the money. Bloody hell! But my father was very patience and said he also wanted to sell some noodles. But my uncle objected by saying that the stall couldn't sold noodle since there were agreement with the other stalls. But then few days after that, he asked my aunty to sell noodles. So since our very 'wonderful' relatives acted like that he decided to quit after all. So he backed to sell nasi lemak every morning and goreng pisang every evening. Although he only made RM100 a day (sometime less), he was happy.
But now he's no longer alive. I knew that so much in his life that he couldn't achieve. He always told me what kind of house he would like to have. Not a shophouses, not a single storey houses. He wanted a double story so that the kitchen is separated with the rooms and the kitchen will always clean. Somehow we are not able to make his wishes come true. He passed away when we all start to have life of our own. Abang's house was almost ready when he passed away. So he did not have the chance to stay even a day in his children house. That is the whole reason why I wanted my own house so much. I did not want to end up like my father. Luckily Ardi finally understood why it is very important to me.
I love my father very much and to this date I always tell Anisah how her atuk really loves her. Anisah seems to remember her atuk whenever she looked at the picture she will say that the man in the picture is her atuk. (Anisah was the onlyLast February, I went back home to JB, we visited my father grave. Anisah was asking why are we here. So I told her that her atuk is now here. And the other day, I bought some goreng pisang. She wanted to save it for her atuk when her atuk wake up from the tanah. I feel so sad but happy as well. Although Anisah does not understand but she remembers her atuk and I will teach Amil to remember him as well. I hope my brothers and sister will teach their children to do the same. Although he was no longer with us, I always feel his presence.
"Semoga roh Hj Abas bin Hj Magu ditempatkan di tempat yang mulia. Amin."
As you grow older you never realize how much you needed your parents. At least I do. I need my father's advice in almost everything. On my career, my marriage, my kids, buying a house, buying a car. In fact almost everything.
I am proud of my father. He's willing to sacrifice his career for the love of my mother. He was a Religious Officer back in Sarawak. His work required him to move around. That was why my elder brother was born in Simanggang and my sister was born in Limbang. But then my late grandparents were not so happy with his moving around thingy. So they bought a land in Larkin, JB, built a shophouse and asked my parents to take care of it. So that was why I ended up born in Singapore (while waiting for the house to be ready) and my other brothers born in Johor Bahru. He became a shopkeeper (that's what they used to call) for almost 20 years before we rented out the shop. It was a sad moment for us to finally close down the shop. I still remembered I went back from Banting just to observe the handover. We did the inventories together.
But my father was a very determine person. Although he lost his only 'punca rezeki', he tried everything he could to support us. After I left for the States, he went to Kuching leave my mother in JB. At the moment, it seemed that my family was dysfuntional a bit. Ayah in Sarawak, Mak in JB, Abang in KL, Akak in Ireland, I was in the States and EE was in boarding school in JB. Some people even accused him of brought all the money to Sarawak and dumped it to his family. Well, if he did, what's the problem? He had every right to do so. His mum was there and all his siblings.
When I got back to Malaysia, he asked me to get a car. So me and him went to the showrooms, searched high and low for the car. And finally, he told me to get a Proton Wira Sedan 1.5. Then, he decided to open a Nasi Campur stall in our of the restaurants. He definitely loved it. Mak were not even allowed to cut the vegetables. Actually so did I but I always insisted to help him. But it was not long last. For some reason, the owner decided to let the stall which only opened at night to operate in the afternoon as well. Ayah was so frustrated. So he decided to stop the operation although the owner tried to persuade my father not to do so. But too late. (Ini lar dia orang Melayu yang tak boleh tengok orang Melayu senang). Then one of my uncle asked him to join him to open another stall saying that you can sell whatever you want. No need to pay the rental or the utilities bill. Until the bill came out, he asked for the money. Bloody hell! But my father was very patience and said he also wanted to sell some noodles. But my uncle objected by saying that the stall couldn't sold noodle since there were agreement with the other stalls. But then few days after that, he asked my aunty to sell noodles. So since our very 'wonderful' relatives acted like that he decided to quit after all. So he backed to sell nasi lemak every morning and goreng pisang every evening. Although he only made RM100 a day (sometime less), he was happy.
But now he's no longer alive. I knew that so much in his life that he couldn't achieve. He always told me what kind of house he would like to have. Not a shophouses, not a single storey houses. He wanted a double story so that the kitchen is separated with the rooms and the kitchen will always clean. Somehow we are not able to make his wishes come true. He passed away when we all start to have life of our own. Abang's house was almost ready when he passed away. So he did not have the chance to stay even a day in his children house. That is the whole reason why I wanted my own house so much. I did not want to end up like my father. Luckily Ardi finally understood why it is very important to me.
I love my father very much and to this date I always tell Anisah how her atuk really loves her. Anisah seems to remember her atuk whenever she looked at the picture she will say that the man in the picture is her atuk. (Anisah was the onlyLast February, I went back home to JB, we visited my father grave. Anisah was asking why are we here. So I told her that her atuk is now here. And the other day, I bought some goreng pisang. She wanted to save it for her atuk when her atuk wake up from the tanah. I feel so sad but happy as well. Although Anisah does not understand but she remembers her atuk and I will teach Amil to remember him as well. I hope my brothers and sister will teach their children to do the same. Although he was no longer with us, I always feel his presence.
"Semoga roh Hj Abas bin Hj Magu ditempatkan di tempat yang mulia. Amin."
Friday, March 21, 2008
Past few weeks of my life
Post election fever
i know i am late.. but can you believe it that the people is talking about the aftermath of the recent election... well at least that what happens in my office (in my office, i am the only malay, others are chinese and the guys like to hang out with us is an indian.. talking about multiracial huh!). but don't you guys love this.. normal people who never care about politics.. now.. talk about politics and talk like they know politics more than anyone else.. hahah.. at least i am.. i have to admit.. i am addicted to malaysiakini and harakahdaily and also all the politics bloggers.. it's like watching soap drama.. hahah.. but am still glad the opposition won.. i know my late father will be very happy if he's still around..
Bowling Match
We (me and ardi) compete against caza and zain.. and we won! we won! hahah.. well.. it's a very tough games.. i guess.. caza and me are the 'penentu' since both of us are not consistent.. and zain.. ardi kata you play not bad!.. well.. pity caza and zain have to pay for all the cost since they lost.. including our dinner... well.. when is the next one? we pay for dinner this time.. but this time i want to take one lane for the kids.. susahnye nak jaga dorang.. penat tau!!
My current office
Well.. so far i think my work place is great.. no juicy gossip.. sampai ardi pun boring sbb takde gossip for me to update him.. hehehe.. i really have nice time working with this people despite of being the only non-chinese.. my boss really nice.. always appraise me whenever i get the job done! hmm...but i know he's sincere.. he appraised other people as well.. we've got couple of sales lately.. am still in the learning curve... for those who don't know.. i am currently working with a company which sells vehicle tracking systems... you may refer here if you would like to know more.. well.. the website have not been updated for a very long time.. so mind that ok...
20th March - Birthday of Prophet Muhammad
Today is a holiday for us.. well.. after watch some parade over the tv.. we decided to go for washing machine hunting.. heheh. .our washer broke down and cannot be repair.. well..can.. but at a high cost.. so might as well get a new one.. so we off to The Curve.. apparently over there, one of the electronics company have a 'relocate sale'.. still a bit pricey though... and we spent more than we budgetted not on the washer but on our lunch... we had lunch at Secret Recipe.. but Anisah refuse to eat.. she wanted cake instead.. but she wanted a whole cakes.. so after a handful of argument with her.. she agreed to eat cupcakes at nearby cupcakes store.. and the cupcakes were expensive.. RM4.50 each. hehh.. not worth it at all.. then she decided she wanted to have an ice-cream.. being a strict mother i am normally will say NO... but somehow.. yesterday i decided to give her a nod.. there we go spend another ringgit at Baskin Robbin.. and we discover this one cool restaurant... Mache.. (yelar aku tau korang suma dah tau.. aku ni kan jakun sket!).. we will try the place later... without the kids..
oo.. back to washer hunting.. we straight to Kepong after that.. for a warehouse sale.. and we managed to get a front load washer for half of the market price.. good deal huh!!!.. so now i don't have to go to the laundry anymore. heheh.. only that.. who can lend us their 4 wheel so we can take our machine??
i have pictures to upload.. the kids pictures.. but i have no time.. busy baca politik issue.. how aaa??
i know i am late.. but can you believe it that the people is talking about the aftermath of the recent election... well at least that what happens in my office (in my office, i am the only malay, others are chinese and the guys like to hang out with us is an indian.. talking about multiracial huh!). but don't you guys love this.. normal people who never care about politics.. now.. talk about politics and talk like they know politics more than anyone else.. hahah.. at least i am.. i have to admit.. i am addicted to malaysiakini and harakahdaily and also all the politics bloggers.. it's like watching soap drama.. hahah.. but am still glad the opposition won.. i know my late father will be very happy if he's still around..
Bowling Match
We (me and ardi) compete against caza and zain.. and we won! we won! hahah.. well.. it's a very tough games.. i guess.. caza and me are the 'penentu' since both of us are not consistent.. and zain.. ardi kata you play not bad!.. well.. pity caza and zain have to pay for all the cost since they lost.. including our dinner... well.. when is the next one? we pay for dinner this time.. but this time i want to take one lane for the kids.. susahnye nak jaga dorang.. penat tau!!
My current office
Well.. so far i think my work place is great.. no juicy gossip.. sampai ardi pun boring sbb takde gossip for me to update him.. hehehe.. i really have nice time working with this people despite of being the only non-chinese.. my boss really nice.. always appraise me whenever i get the job done! hmm...but i know he's sincere.. he appraised other people as well.. we've got couple of sales lately.. am still in the learning curve... for those who don't know.. i am currently working with a company which sells vehicle tracking systems... you may refer here if you would like to know more.. well.. the website have not been updated for a very long time.. so mind that ok...
20th March - Birthday of Prophet Muhammad
Today is a holiday for us.. well.. after watch some parade over the tv.. we decided to go for washing machine hunting.. heheh. .our washer broke down and cannot be repair.. well..can.. but at a high cost.. so might as well get a new one.. so we off to The Curve.. apparently over there, one of the electronics company have a 'relocate sale'.. still a bit pricey though... and we spent more than we budgetted not on the washer but on our lunch... we had lunch at Secret Recipe.. but Anisah refuse to eat.. she wanted cake instead.. but she wanted a whole cakes.. so after a handful of argument with her.. she agreed to eat cupcakes at nearby cupcakes store.. and the cupcakes were expensive.. RM4.50 each. hehh.. not worth it at all.. then she decided she wanted to have an ice-cream.. being a strict mother i am normally will say NO... but somehow.. yesterday i decided to give her a nod.. there we go spend another ringgit at Baskin Robbin.. and we discover this one cool restaurant... Mache.. (yelar aku tau korang suma dah tau.. aku ni kan jakun sket!).. we will try the place later... without the kids..
oo.. back to washer hunting.. we straight to Kepong after that.. for a warehouse sale.. and we managed to get a front load washer for half of the market price.. good deal huh!!!.. so now i don't have to go to the laundry anymore. heheh.. only that.. who can lend us their 4 wheel so we can take our machine??
i have pictures to upload.. the kids pictures.. but i have no time.. busy baca politik issue.. how aaa??
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Sunday, February 24, 2008
Past and Present
Sebelum caza ngan nana bising kat aku lagi.. so baik aku cepat2 update.. hahahah...
13th of February, Navi & Map Sdn Bhd.
My last day. It went quite smooth although I still have to train Napi and Akil on that very last day. But sorry guys the training was not completed. It is not easy to do what I had to do. Again, I cursed my very stupid Senior Manager (or whatever he wanted to be called) in front of my HR. So she recorded everything I said. Well, I have nothing to lose. So just say it out right. I did not have a chance to meet my COO since he was not in the office that day. I really wanted to meet him. Well, I will email him sometime later. By 6 o'clock, it was time to say goodbye to everybody. I was in a happy mood. I pity whoever still there. I wish all of them luck. I learnt a lot while I was in that company. Although most of my experience were not that nice. But I think the whole experience give me a new thoughts of what I want to do in the future. Well, I cannot say that now since it is still under plan. Once it is done, insya allah I will announce it. But don't expected much in this few days or months
13th - 17th of February, Trip to Johor Bahru
Leave the office, went straight home to Johor Bahru with the whole family. The traffic was good since it is a normal working days. I went to my old office, met my colleague and my old boss, managed to almost sell out my Little Trees, went to my colleague's house which the landscape is very nice. Anisah got to play golf while we went there. Managed to do some shopping for myself and Ardi. Sorry kids not your shopping day. Met Ardi's cousin to get some new gossip. Went to Singapore to meet my grandmother who is not really well but have to go to Brunei due to some people inconsiderate decision. How wish life is always like this. Not having to worry about your liabilities and all that. Hahahahah.. I can only wish.
18th of February, Intelli-Telematicsasia Sdn Bhd.
First day in the new company. Well, can't say much yet. I try to hang on as long as I can. But we had an exhibition from 21st to 23rd February in PWTC. My duty is on the last day which is Saturday. Well according to my AGM, Overtime is not needed unless really necessary. And I tend to believe him since he told me he's a family man not a career man. Great! At least we have that similiarities. ahhaha... So we'll see how it is going...
Till then.. ardi is outstation for the 2nd time since 5 days ago. He went to Kuantan on Wednesday and went home very late on Friday. And today he is going to Labuan until this Tuesday. Apparently, when daddy is not at home, everybody else tend to not being themselves. They drive mummy crazy. Arghhhhh
13th of February, Navi & Map Sdn Bhd.
My last day. It went quite smooth although I still have to train Napi and Akil on that very last day. But sorry guys the training was not completed. It is not easy to do what I had to do. Again, I cursed my very stupid Senior Manager (or whatever he wanted to be called) in front of my HR. So she recorded everything I said. Well, I have nothing to lose. So just say it out right. I did not have a chance to meet my COO since he was not in the office that day. I really wanted to meet him. Well, I will email him sometime later. By 6 o'clock, it was time to say goodbye to everybody. I was in a happy mood. I pity whoever still there. I wish all of them luck. I learnt a lot while I was in that company. Although most of my experience were not that nice. But I think the whole experience give me a new thoughts of what I want to do in the future. Well, I cannot say that now since it is still under plan. Once it is done, insya allah I will announce it. But don't expected much in this few days or months
13th - 17th of February, Trip to Johor Bahru
Leave the office, went straight home to Johor Bahru with the whole family. The traffic was good since it is a normal working days. I went to my old office, met my colleague and my old boss, managed to almost sell out my Little Trees, went to my colleague's house which the landscape is very nice. Anisah got to play golf while we went there. Managed to do some shopping for myself and Ardi. Sorry kids not your shopping day. Met Ardi's cousin to get some new gossip. Went to Singapore to meet my grandmother who is not really well but have to go to Brunei due to some people inconsiderate decision. How wish life is always like this. Not having to worry about your liabilities and all that. Hahahahah.. I can only wish.
18th of February, Intelli-Telematicsasia Sdn Bhd.
First day in the new company. Well, can't say much yet. I try to hang on as long as I can. But we had an exhibition from 21st to 23rd February in PWTC. My duty is on the last day which is Saturday. Well according to my AGM, Overtime is not needed unless really necessary. And I tend to believe him since he told me he's a family man not a career man. Great! At least we have that similiarities. ahhaha... So we'll see how it is going...
Till then.. ardi is outstation for the 2nd time since 5 days ago. He went to Kuantan on Wednesday and went home very late on Friday. And today he is going to Labuan until this Tuesday. Apparently, when daddy is not at home, everybody else tend to not being themselves. They drive mummy crazy. Arghhhhh
Monday, February 11, 2008
McDonald's di Banting
Aku tak puas hati.. skrang ada McD kat Banting. Apsal masa aku kat sana takde McD tu. Bebalik makan KFC. Pastu dah lar tu ada Tesco lar ada Mall lagi.. arghhh.. sama lar cam nasib aku masa kat Kuantan dulu..
oo.. Did I mention the McD is a drive-thru.. arghhhhhhh
p/s: oops.. since nana asked.. aku gi banting ari sabtu ari tu.. ada orang kawin di sana
oo.. Did I mention the McD is a drive-thru.. arghhhhhhh
p/s: oops.. since nana asked.. aku gi banting ari sabtu ari tu.. ada orang kawin di sana
Wednesday, February 06, 2008
Mummy.. Can I be a photographer??
Not sure when she did this. Below are some of the pictures, Anisah took during her 'photography session'
The Organ Setting Keys
The Organ Keys
Guess what's this? It's the bed sheets
Hahahaha.. Adik Kantoi! Finally mummy tau siapa yang gigit pensel tu
Aunty Caza, can you coment.. am I talented??
The Organ Setting Keys
The Organ Keys
Guess what's this? It's the bed sheets
Aunty Caza, can you coment.. am I talented??
4th Birthday Party
I celebrated my birthday at my school "Tadika Cahaya Kasih". She wants me to celebrate it with my friends. She bought me cupcakes from Mama Chak Recipe (indirectly recommended by Nana thru Aliah's bidthday party). The cupcakes were really yummy. My friends really love it. Only few lefts for mummy, daddy, wan ma and tok ibu.
Usually the babies (below 2 years old) will not join the party. But since it is my birthday, Adik got special invitation from me. But Adik look so confused. Kenapa adik??? Maybe he wants to blow the candles too. Tapi adik.. ni kan birthday kakak!!
Tuesday, February 05, 2008
Thursday, January 31, 2008
Cerita Hari Selasa - 29 January 2008
Story 1
I am clumsy and careless. I know that for a long time. But it seems like it doesn't want to go away. And it happened again last Tuesday.
I was already late to work. But I still need to grab something (my Little Trees Business) from the back of my car since some of my 'clients' want their order. So being me, I opened the back trunk, locked the main door, and throw the keys on the back dashboard and shut the trunk. Only to realize that I left the car keys in the car when I was about to go home. Since my colleague also failed to help me to open the door the way the criminal always do. hahah.. So I ended up taking the bus to Taipan to meet Ardi to get the spare keys. The saddest thing, my daughter asked me this (when we picked her up), "Macam mana mummy boleh tertinggal kunci dalam kereta?" My almost 4-year old asked me this. errmm... I can only said, "Entah lar mummy pun tak tau!"
Story 2
I bathed Anisah yesterday morning before she's going to school. All the sudden she told me this. "Kesian kan mummy aliah tu (err.. sorry na! she did mention aliah's name). Kena duduk je kat bawah.. kaki dia darah.. pastu kepala dia kena kuarkan air kan mummy kan.. pastu rambut dia kena potong pastu ada plaster kat kepala dia kan.. sian baby aliah tu kan!" Err... she actually referred to Ina and baby Dania. I was so amazed she told me this since I think I told her about Ina's sickness when we visited Ina at SJMC few weeks back. So I am amazed.
Story 3
I always asked Anisah what she learns in school. I asked her almost every day. Ooo by the way, we sent her to a new school Tadika Al-Husni which is an Islamic Kindergarten and the preferred language is English. The subject includes Iqra', Malay, English, Jawi, Mental Arithmetic, Thematic, Solat and they have Gardening. Back to the actual story. So I asked her what she learns in school, she always said "Emmm takde buat apa-apa.. kita duduk-duduk je.." So Ardi and me was very furious. So on Tuesday morning, when we sent her to school, I accidentally met her teacher. And her teacher told us that "Anisah ni pernah sekolah ke? Semua dia tau.. Boleh masuk 5 year old nye class ni.. sebab dia bijak semua dia tau.." So as a mother, I smile the whole day. I am a proud mother!!
I am clumsy and careless. I know that for a long time. But it seems like it doesn't want to go away. And it happened again last Tuesday.
I was already late to work. But I still need to grab something (my Little Trees Business) from the back of my car since some of my 'clients' want their order. So being me, I opened the back trunk, locked the main door, and throw the keys on the back dashboard and shut the trunk. Only to realize that I left the car keys in the car when I was about to go home. Since my colleague also failed to help me to open the door the way the criminal always do. hahah.. So I ended up taking the bus to Taipan to meet Ardi to get the spare keys. The saddest thing, my daughter asked me this (when we picked her up), "Macam mana mummy boleh tertinggal kunci dalam kereta?" My almost 4-year old asked me this. errmm... I can only said, "Entah lar mummy pun tak tau!"
Story 2
I bathed Anisah yesterday morning before she's going to school. All the sudden she told me this. "Kesian kan mummy aliah tu (err.. sorry na! she did mention aliah's name). Kena duduk je kat bawah.. kaki dia darah.. pastu kepala dia kena kuarkan air kan mummy kan.. pastu rambut dia kena potong pastu ada plaster kat kepala dia kan.. sian baby aliah tu kan!" Err... she actually referred to Ina and baby Dania. I was so amazed she told me this since I think I told her about Ina's sickness when we visited Ina at SJMC few weeks back. So I am amazed.
Story 3
I always asked Anisah what she learns in school. I asked her almost every day. Ooo by the way, we sent her to a new school Tadika Al-Husni which is an Islamic Kindergarten and the preferred language is English. The subject includes Iqra', Malay, English, Jawi, Mental Arithmetic, Thematic, Solat and they have Gardening. Back to the actual story. So I asked her what she learns in school, she always said "Emmm takde buat apa-apa.. kita duduk-duduk je.." So Ardi and me was very furious. So on Tuesday morning, when we sent her to school, I accidentally met her teacher. And her teacher told us that "Anisah ni pernah sekolah ke? Semua dia tau.. Boleh masuk 5 year old nye class ni.. sebab dia bijak semua dia tau.." So as a mother, I smile the whole day. I am a proud mother!!
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Comeback?? Are you sure??
I love to read my friend's blog. I also love it my friends read my blog. But do I really have time to do this???
Dear friends,
Maybe you guys no longer hope in my blogs anymore since my long silence. This is my latest updates.
1) Anisah is going to be 4 next month
2) Amil just turned 2 last month
3) I am changing my job again
4) Ardi is also changing his job
5) We are in the process of buying a new house
6) I am planning for our number 3
7) My grandma is not well
8) I have facebook and friendster under "KAY ABAS"
My vision for 2008
1) I am trying to diversify my investments.
2) More 'religious'
3) No or less " Cuti-cuti Malaysia" this year.. we had a lot last year
4) Rebuild my relationships with people around me
5) Be more nice towards others
6) Searching my old friends
7) Save more
I will try the best I can to continue write or type in this blog. I am not advanced as you all there. So much for being an IT person (never regard myself as one though!).
But I try.
Dear friends,
Maybe you guys no longer hope in my blogs anymore since my long silence. This is my latest updates.
1) Anisah is going to be 4 next month
2) Amil just turned 2 last month
3) I am changing my job again
4) Ardi is also changing his job
5) We are in the process of buying a new house
6) I am planning for our number 3
7) My grandma is not well
8) I have facebook and friendster under "KAY ABAS"
My vision for 2008
1) I am trying to diversify my investments.
2) More 'religious'
3) No or less " Cuti-cuti Malaysia" this year.. we had a lot last year
4) Rebuild my relationships with people around me
5) Be more nice towards others
6) Searching my old friends
7) Save more
I will try the best I can to continue write or type in this blog. I am not advanced as you all there. So much for being an IT person (never regard myself as one though!).
But I try.
Saturday, February 10, 2007
anisah's said...
We were away for a vey longgggggggg time.. yup.. mummy is too busy with her work.. what ever work that she's doing... still yet to understand why she has to stay up so late... leave both us with daddy.. and poor daddy have to deal with our 'craziness'..
yup.. adik is already 13 months.. time flies huh.. we can play 'polics & thieves' now.. we can run around the house.. yup.. it's fun to have little bro.. i thought mummy wil not love me when adik is around.. but she still does.. in fact she let me have a small birthday party with my friends at school last monday.. and i have a BARNEY cake with me..
now I am 3.. yeahhhhh... 3.. ihihihi.. same as mummy but mummy is BIGGGG 3... plus 0 at the back.. I learn a lot at school.. who said it's school for eat only.. i learn ABC, 123, ALif Baa Taa, all sort of songs and doa. i like school...
yup.. adik is already 13 months.. time flies huh.. we can play 'polics & thieves' now.. we can run around the house.. yup.. it's fun to have little bro.. i thought mummy wil not love me when adik is around.. but she still does.. in fact she let me have a small birthday party with my friends at school last monday.. and i have a BARNEY cake with me..
now I am 3.. yeahhhhh... 3.. ihihihi.. same as mummy but mummy is BIGGGG 3... plus 0 at the back.. I learn a lot at school.. who said it's school for eat only.. i learn ABC, 123, ALif Baa Taa, all sort of songs and doa. i like school...
Sunday, September 03, 2006
Sunday, July 09, 2006
9th July...
this date will always be remembered.. it's my father's birthday.. he'll be 59 this year if he's still alive.. but he passed away a year ago due to liver cancer..
semoga roh ayah dicucuri rahmatNYA.. insya allah..
p/s:so many things happen in past weeks.. tapi no time to blog it.. will try to find the time..
semoga roh ayah dicucuri rahmatNYA.. insya allah..
p/s:so many things happen in past weeks.. tapi no time to blog it.. will try to find the time..
Monday, June 05, 2006
Job, work, kerja....
kenapa lepas belajar kena kerja?
banyak sebabkan.. tapi all the sebab will revolve around MONEY..
kita kerja sebab perlukan duit... kenapa nak duit??
dulu masa bujang... kita kerja sebab.. yelar.. dah abis belajar... takkan nak kerja.. nak gak rasa duit sendiri... nak balas budi parents yg dah spend banyak masa kita belajar.. nak beli barang yg kita tak penah dapat beli masa kita belajar dulu.. nak beli kereta... dan macam2 lagi lar sebab2nya.
pastu bila dah kahwin.. kita kena kerja gak.. walaupun dah ada hubby.. sebab.. nak tolong hubby.. nak beli rumah sendiri.. nak beli keperluan keluarga..
ada anak plak.. lagi lar banyak nak pakai duit.. so makin lar kena kerja.. takkan nak harapkan laki.. nak beli susu, pampers, baju anak2...
so we need to work selamanya.. hanya nak menampung kehidupan harian... yelar... asal keluar pintu rumah je.. paling kurang 1 sen dah kena spend...
tapi... penatkan.. bila gi kerja.. kita kena marah.. lebih2 lagi kalau kesalahan tu terlalu kecil.. bandingkan dengan orang lain punya kesalahan yg maybe lebih besar.. tapi sebab sama kaum.. buat cam takde apa... tu lar dulu aku keje bumi company tak rasa semua2 ni.. bila dah kerja japanese company lak.. banyak2 kaum lain... ni lar jadi nye...
pastu.. terpikir.. sampai bila nak kerja ngan orang.. dan kena marah ngan orang.. takkan sampai ke tua nak macam ni.. so masa ni lar pk.. hmmm.. bagus nye kalau kerja sendiri... kan?
banyak sebabkan.. tapi all the sebab will revolve around MONEY..
kita kerja sebab perlukan duit... kenapa nak duit??
dulu masa bujang... kita kerja sebab.. yelar.. dah abis belajar... takkan nak kerja.. nak gak rasa duit sendiri... nak balas budi parents yg dah spend banyak masa kita belajar.. nak beli barang yg kita tak penah dapat beli masa kita belajar dulu.. nak beli kereta... dan macam2 lagi lar sebab2nya.
pastu bila dah kahwin.. kita kena kerja gak.. walaupun dah ada hubby.. sebab.. nak tolong hubby.. nak beli rumah sendiri.. nak beli keperluan keluarga..
ada anak plak.. lagi lar banyak nak pakai duit.. so makin lar kena kerja.. takkan nak harapkan laki.. nak beli susu, pampers, baju anak2...
so we need to work selamanya.. hanya nak menampung kehidupan harian... yelar... asal keluar pintu rumah je.. paling kurang 1 sen dah kena spend...
tapi... penatkan.. bila gi kerja.. kita kena marah.. lebih2 lagi kalau kesalahan tu terlalu kecil.. bandingkan dengan orang lain punya kesalahan yg maybe lebih besar.. tapi sebab sama kaum.. buat cam takde apa... tu lar dulu aku keje bumi company tak rasa semua2 ni.. bila dah kerja japanese company lak.. banyak2 kaum lain... ni lar jadi nye...
pastu.. terpikir.. sampai bila nak kerja ngan orang.. dan kena marah ngan orang.. takkan sampai ke tua nak macam ni.. so masa ni lar pk.. hmmm.. bagus nye kalau kerja sendiri... kan?
Tuesday, May 16, 2006
Tuesday, May 09, 2006
another mistakes?
tak tau dah nak buat apa.. rasanya makin lama makin banyak buat salah... dah 10 tahun berlalu.. make mistakes from one to another.... so kalau buat decision lagi lepas ni.. betul ke tak apa yang aku buat ni?? rasa tak nak dah buat keputusan.. kalau decision tu memajukan diri okey lar gak.. tapi terasa makin lama makin teruk.. am i that bad? am i that bold? am i that stupid?
ya allah.. berikan lar petunjuk kepada ku.. supaya aku memilih jalan yg benar... amin
ya allah.. berikan lar petunjuk kepada ku.. supaya aku memilih jalan yg benar... amin
Tuesday, April 18, 2006
Happy Anniversary...
Happy 3rd Anniversary..
Dear Hubby,
Thank you for completing my life... We have gone thru so many things in this past 3 years and will do for many years to come...
I Love You..
Love, your wife
Dear Hubby,
Thank you for completing my life... We have gone thru so many things in this past 3 years and will do for many years to come...
I Love You..
Love, your wife
Monday, April 17, 2006
Missing...
it's been 3 days... but i feel like it's been 3 years...
when she's around.. i scold her...
when she's around.. i said she's making too much noise..
when she's around.. i screamed at her..
but now.. she's not around...
and... i really miss her...
dear anisah sayang... lamanya awak kat brunei.. mummy rindu lar nak gaduh ngan awak.. lagi 4 hari awak nak balik.. lamanyaaaa.....
when she's around.. i scold her...
when she's around.. i said she's making too much noise..
when she's around.. i screamed at her..
but now.. she's not around...
and... i really miss her...
dear anisah sayang... lamanya awak kat brunei.. mummy rindu lar nak gaduh ngan awak.. lagi 4 hari awak nak balik.. lamanyaaaa.....
Thursday, April 06, 2006
Perfect Match
i've won the Mix.FM perfect match contest!!
Q1) What would you do if you lose your wallet??
Q2) If you are in hurry, what will be the meat dish you prepare for your husband?
Q3) How much money your husband carry in his wallet everyday?
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A1) Definitely called him!
A2) Anything to do with chicken, chicken nugget!
A3) 50 - 100
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Congratulations! both of you have won rm250 giant voucher!
Yippie! Yippie! Yippie!
p/s: this event happened yesterday morning around 10 am
Q1) What would you do if you lose your wallet??
Q2) If you are in hurry, what will be the meat dish you prepare for your husband?
Q3) How much money your husband carry in his wallet everyday?
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A1) Definitely called him!
A2) Anything to do with chicken, chicken nugget!
A3) 50 - 100
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Congratulations! both of you have won rm250 giant voucher!
Yippie! Yippie! Yippie!
p/s: this event happened yesterday morning around 10 am
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